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I nonetheless keep in mind the morning after I heard of Rituparno Ghosh’s sudden dying. Had he lived, he would have been 59 on thirty first August. However that was not the best way his screenplay was written. Ritu was born to die, little by little. Like Meena Kumari in Pakeezah, certainly one of his favorite characters from the flicks.

Though, he was closest to Jaya Bachchan, with whom he did just one movie, Sunglass, which by no means bought launched, Ritu’s favorite actress was Rekha. He was spellbound by her magnificence and particularly her make-up methods. Though, Aparna Sen thinks Ritu needed to seem like her, I believe Ritu needed to seem like Rekha. He died attempting to surgically rework into a girl, lonely and loveless.

Nobody besides these closest to Ritu know this: he was in a long-term relationship with a married Bengali famous person. Ritu typically spoke to me about this  famous person’s lack of dedication “He’s a coward and a hypocrite,” Ritu  would say angrily. “He’s additionally a really clumsy lover,” Ritu would add playfully.

“He bought upset very simply and wouldn’t communicate for days, typically months, for one thing foolish, like one thing I wrote or one thing I didn’t write. We had lengthy heated arguments on cinema, which regularly ended on one or each of us banging the cellphone down. There have been movies he hated and I cherished, like Sanjay Leela Bhansali’s Saawariya, which he initially hated. However then, he got here round.”

Ritu was by no means afraid to confess his mistake. I first met him in Kolkata when he was capturing a whodunit Shubho Mahurat with two temperamental Bengali actresses, Sharmila Tagore and Raakhee Gulzar, who had a historical past of variations. Ritu was tense. He was all the time nervous, anxious and pressured. Many really feel it was his gender confusion that killed this good filmmaker, thought-about  subsequent solely to Satyajit Ray in Bengali cinema. Ritu labored with Ray’s actors Soumitra Chatterjee and Sharmila Tagore, additionally extra modern artistes like Prosenjit Chatterjee and Nandita Das.

Rituparno’s best failing as knowledgeable artiste was his predisposition to supply the identical position to various actors. His movies, whether or not it was Utsab, Dahan , Unnishe April or The Final Lear (the bombastic theatrical thunder-flick with Amitabh  Bachchan) re-defined Bangla cinema. Engaged on water-tight budgets, Ritu owned the cinematic area like an astronaut in area.

However that was his skilled triumph. At residence, on their lonesome, Ritu was a misplaced, frightened soul, typically afraid of the inside demons that attacked him when nobody was trying. That’s the worth you paid to your honesty. In a world the place everyone hid within the closet, Ritu got here out of the closet sporting ladies’s garments. Ritu was very lonely after his dad or mum’s dying. He spoke to me typically of ending his life. He  mentioned his love life with me, spoke of his long-standing affair with a married Bengali matinee idol.

After Ritu misplaced his dad and mom, he misplaced management of his emotions. He needed to not simply appear and feel like a girl. He needed  to be a girl. I hope he handed away peacefully, all of the licks and lashes of life forgotten.

I keep in mind how harm Ritu was when a famous person Khan’s little son had requested him, ‘Ought to I name you Uncle or Aunty?’

That query haunted him each time he seemed into the mirror.

Subhash Okay Jha is a Patna-based movie critic who has been writing about Bollywood for lengthy sufficient to know the trade inside out. He tweets at @SubhashK_Jha.

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